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"I think I'm getting sick, my throat hurts" When I get this text from a doula client, especially one who's breastfeeding and trying not to take meds... This is the "recipe" I send them 👇 ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 🎁 YOUR DAY 4 GIFT: This is something I’ve made on repeat for years. The second anyone in our house starts to feel off, this is what I make. I honestly think it's helped us dodge a lot of full-blown sick days. It's also what I send to doula clients when they text me, "I think I'm getting sick." Because if you're the one feeding the baby, making the decisions, and up at 3am, your wellness matters. A lot. 👉 CLICK HERE to grab the Wellness Elixir Recipe 🎁 Of course, this isn’t a replacement for medical care. If you need to see your doctor, always go. But I'm hoping this saves you a few trips, same way it has for us. 🤔 NEWBORN NUGGET One thing that surprises almost every new parent: Newborns sound… noisy. Congested. Snorty. Sneezy. And it can feel alarming if you’re not expecting it. But in most cases, it’s completely normal. Your baby has spent months surrounded by fluid. After birth, they’re still clearing that out, which is why you’ll often hear congestion or sneezing in those early weeks. (And babies born via C-section sometimes sound a little more congested at first for this reason.) When you know this ahead of time, you don’t panic when you hear it at 2am. You recognize it for what it is. And that’s what changes everything. I talk more about typical newborn behavior here. 🙌🏼 ONE SMALL THING TO DO TODAY Start thinking about what you want the first month at home to look like when it comes to visitors. Not just who will come…but when. You are allowed to: • wait a couple of weeks You don’t need to host. You just need space to settle in. I’ll be back tomorrow with Day 5. xoxo, Valerie Trumbower, PCD(DONA), CLC Certified Postpartum Doula, Certified Lactation Counselor P.S. Reminder: The first 7 days after birth is critical for building your milk supply. If you're due in October, November or December and planning to breastfeed click here |
As this Countdown to Labor Day Series ends today you should be proud of yourself! You did something most first-time parents don't. You prepared before your baby arrived. That alone puts you ahead. If you've been wondering when to start pumping, what supplies you actually need, and how to set yourself up before baby arrives, today's gift was made for you. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 🎁 YOUR DAY 12 GIFT: The Pumping Checklist A week-by-week...
Happy Saturday Reader! After a decade as a postpartum doula, I can tell you the parents who feel calmest aren't the ones with the fanciest gear. They're the ones who understand what's normal, know what to watch for, and have support lined up. 👆 That last piece is the one people skip. Usually because it sounds nice but feels out of reach. Doula support is not as out of reach as you might think. Families make it work by... 📍 adding a doula fund to the registry 📍planning for just one or two...
Hi Reader, Quick question: Are you planning to pump at all? Even occasionally? If yes, here's something worth knowing before baby gets here: Breastmilk storage is one of those things that will constantly have you second guessing yourself. How long has this been sitting out? Is it still good? Do I toss it or do I use it? And when you’re tired, the last thing you want is to guess...or worse, waste milk you worked hard to pump. Before we get to today’s gift, one quick tip: When you freeze milk,...